Our yard was a garden
of snow and our father
was the gardener. He
made snow forts and
an obstacle course of
sorts for my sisters and
me in the front yard one
winter. It was an exciting
adventure, and a little
bit scary, but I felt safe
knowing that Dad was
guiding the sled and
guarding the fort. I still
remember his laugh
that day as we squealed
with delight, holding tight
to the orange, plastic sled.
Thursday, February 23, 2023
Snow Garden
Monday, February 06, 2023
For What It’s Worth
When a musician dies,
I read their obit,
buy one of their records,
and study their story.
I want to honor their life
and their work,
their life's work
and their life's worth.
Wednesday, January 25, 2023
(the smell of a coffeehouse:)
the smell of a coffeehouse:
one of the things I fell
in love with in college
Saturday, December 31, 2022
Sunday, December 18, 2022
In the Company of Angels
I keep the photo in a box,
the box that my grandmother
gave me one Christmas,
the box that holds a single
glass angel ornament with golden trim.
I tuck the picture
underneath the angel
for safe keeping.
The photograph captures
the Christmas that you
spent with us 18 years ago
in Nashville.
This is the first Christmas
that Grand is no longer with us,
and the first Christmas
that the two of you,
complete strangers,
will somehow keep each other
company.Friday, December 02, 2022
Friday, November 25, 2022
Confessional
I have a taste
for the dark side.
And my two-fisted
drink preparation
gives me away
every time.
I make it a double,
now that one
simply doesn’t
cut it anymore.
My tolerance has
increased, as has
my thirst.
Does that make me
a junkie,
an addict?
Perhaps.
I’m not ashamed
of my need
for that extra shot.
It makes the day
tolerable,
worth living,
and I’m not afraid
to admit it.
You want me to
own up to the truth
for my
own good?
Well, fine.
I’ll shout it
from the rooftops.
I’VE TAKEN TO STEEPING
TWO TEA BAGS AT ONCE!
Monday, November 14, 2022
(ban on "bored" meetings:)
ban on "bored" meetings:
espresso, shortbread cookies;
jazz records on low
Saturday, October 15, 2022
Wednesday, October 05, 2022
Monday, September 19, 2022
Saturday, September 03, 2022
(You're like a rabid)
You're like a rabid
porcupine -- impossible
to safely engage.
Saturday, August 20, 2022
Seasonal Criminals
summertime sandals --
against olfactory.
Saturday, August 06, 2022
Saturday, July 23, 2022
Sunday, July 10, 2022
We
We shared a Blockbuster card,
a bed,
and a secret.
Monday, June 27, 2022
Saturday, June 18, 2022
A Letter to the Predator
Dear straight Christian friend,
When you post a picture of
a burning gay pride flag online,
I am not merely encountering
an expression of an opinion.
I don't simply see a person
making a statement
about an issue.
I don't view it as
an individual "deeply devoted
to a faith based on mercy and grace"
taking a stand amidst a culture war.
I see my friend
advocating -- and perpetrating --
violence against me.
I feel threatened
and frightened
and sickened.
I see -- with my own eyes --
my friend proclaiming
to me and the world
that I am worthy of abuse.
I witness my friend
declaring me fit for
gasoline
and matches
and burning flesh
and torture
and death.
I see that my friend --
my "loving, compassionate, Christ-like" friend --
is not, in fact, my friend at all.
-- Your gay neighbor
Monday, June 06, 2022
Thursday, June 02, 2022
Women and Spoken Word and Brunch! Oh, My!
Ladies, join us this Sunday for Go Girl Saugatuck's Spirit Sunday Brunch! I will kick off the spoken word presentation with a set of my own and help to facilitate an open mic session thereafter.
Sunday, June 5, from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m.
310 Blue Star Highway
Douglas, MI
For more information about the entire women's weekend and lineup -- including the brunch -- please visit Go Girl Saugatuck.