Miles Davis on tap
grape juice in the stereo
a New Year's Eve day
Saturday, December 31, 2022
Sunday, December 18, 2022
In the Company of Angels
I keep the photo in a box,
the box that my grandmother
gave me one Christmas,
the box that holds a single
glass angel ornament with golden trim.
I tuck the picture
underneath the angel
for safe keeping.
The photograph captures
the Christmas that you
spent with us 18 years ago
in Nashville.
This is the first Christmas
that Grand is no longer with us,
and the first Christmas
that the two of you,
complete strangers,
will somehow keep each other
company.Friday, December 02, 2022
Friday, November 25, 2022
Confessional
I have a taste
for the dark side.
And my two-fisted
drink preparation
gives me away
every time.
I make it a double,
now that one
simply doesn’t
cut it anymore.
My tolerance has
increased, as has
my thirst.
Does that make me
a junkie,
an addict?
Perhaps.
I’m not ashamed
of my need
for that extra shot.
It makes the day
tolerable,
worth living,
and I’m not afraid
to admit it.
You want me to
own up to the truth
for my
own good?
Well, fine.
I’ll shout it
from the rooftops.
I’VE TAKEN TO STEEPING
TWO TEA BAGS AT ONCE!
Monday, November 14, 2022
(ban on "bored" meetings:)
ban on "bored" meetings:
espresso, shortbread cookies;
jazz records on low
Saturday, October 15, 2022
Wednesday, October 05, 2022
Monday, September 19, 2022
Saturday, September 03, 2022
(You're like a rabid)
You're like a rabid
porcupine -- impossible
to safely engage.
Saturday, August 20, 2022
Seasonal Criminals
summertime sandals --
against olfactory.
Saturday, August 06, 2022
Saturday, July 23, 2022
Sunday, July 10, 2022
We
We shared a Blockbuster card,
a bed,
and a secret.
Monday, June 27, 2022
Saturday, June 18, 2022
A Letter to the Predator
Dear straight Christian friend,
When you post a picture of
a burning gay pride flag online,
I am not merely encountering
an expression of an opinion.
I don't simply see a person
making a statement
about an issue.
I don't view it as
an individual "deeply devoted
to a faith based on mercy and grace"
taking a stand amidst a culture war.
I see my friend
advocating -- and perpetrating --
violence against me.
I feel threatened
and frightened
and sickened.
I see -- with my own eyes --
my friend proclaiming
to me and the world
that I am worthy of abuse.
I witness my friend
declaring me fit for
gasoline
and matches
and burning flesh
and torture
and death.
I see that my friend --
my "loving, compassionate, Christ-like" friend --
is not, in fact, my friend at all.
-- Your gay neighbor
Monday, June 06, 2022
Thursday, June 02, 2022
Women and Spoken Word and Brunch! Oh, My!
Ladies, join us this Sunday for Go Girl Saugatuck's Spirit Sunday Brunch! I will kick off the spoken word presentation with a set of my own and help to facilitate an open mic session thereafter.
Sunday, June 5, from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m.
310 Blue Star Highway
Douglas, MI
For more information about the entire women's weekend and lineup -- including the brunch -- please visit Go Girl Saugatuck.
Wednesday, May 25, 2022
PRIDE Poetry Reading
I am happy to announce that I have been asked to read my poem "My One Wild and Precious Life" at this year's PRIDE Poetry Reading, as a part of Holland's 2022 PRIDE celebration.
Wednesday, June 1, from 7 to 8:30 p.m.
300 S. River Ave.
Holland, MI
Please join us then!
Sunday, May 22, 2022
Go Girl Saugatuck: Spirit Sunday Spoken Word Brunch
I am pleased to announce that I will be the featured poet at Go Girl Saugatuck's Spirit Sunday Brunch next month! I will kick off the spoken word presentation with a set of my own and help to facilitate an open mic session thereafter. Ladies, please join us as we celebrate our souls!
Sunday, June 5, from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m.
310 Blue Star Highway
Douglas, MI
For more information about the entire women's weekend and lineup -- including the brunch -- please visit Go Girl Saugatuck.
Wednesday, May 18, 2022
Saturday, April 30, 2022
Friday, April 08, 2022
Two Faced
A man doesn't obsess
over his face.
It is what it is.
He doesn't even give it
a second thought.
He was born with that face,
was raised with that face,
and grew up with that face.
He went through grade school,
middle school, high school,
and college with that face.
He dated with that face,
started a career with that face,
and formed a family with that face.
Everyone who's ever met him
knows him by that face.
He never reached an age when he was
asked, encouraged, or expected to begin
covering up
his natural, "God-given" face with
moisturizer,
concealer,
base,
powder,
blush,
eyeliner,
mascara,
eyebrow pencil,
three shades of eye shadow,
lip liner,
lipstick,
and lip gloss
every
single
day.
He never hides his true face.
He doesn't spend hours each week
covering his face early in the morning
and uncovering it late at night.
He doesn't spend years
distrusting his real face,
building a life, a career,
a family, a self,
based on a lie, a fake, a coverup.
He doesn't spend a moment
wondering if his actual face
is acceptable
without a full-fledged makeover.
He didn't learn how to
abandon his true face,
distrust his bare, naked face,
disconnect from his real self,
or disassociate from his true face
in order to create a completely
different visage
to present to the world.
He trusts his face
and relies on his face
without even knowing it
or thinking about it.
He just moves through the world
as his self,
with his true, natural, real, actual face,
without fear or worry.
He does this without even a thought.
Meanwhile, a woman
is expected to do the exact opposite --
to model to the entire world
that her true, natural, real, actual,
"God-given" face is unacceptable
and should only be
seen in public
when it is 100% altered --
to become
quite literally
two faced.
Tuesday, March 22, 2022
Tuesday, March 01, 2022
Tuesday, February 08, 2022
(My spouse fills our house)
My spouse fills our house
with the scents and sounds of home --
homemade sourdough bread and Tina Turner tunes.
Wednesday, January 19, 2022
Without a Honk
There were four
of them -- four
graceful geese
gliding over 65
North as the four-
lane interstate
backed up
farther and farther
south. In the midst
of the two-accident
Tuesday morning
turmoil, just as I
began to grip my
steering wheel
in frustration, I
saw the quartet
breezing over
all four lanes
of traffic without
a honk of their own --
so soft, so peaceful,
so content; so intent.
I watched them
split into two pairs
and continue on their
January journey,
as I adjusted my
hands and then
my attitude, without
a honk of my own.